Boundaries
This is the twelfth card that I made, way back in Autumn 2006. I often call it my "take no shit" card and it speaks to me most about boundaries, although sometimes it speaks about decisiveness. This is something that I am noticing more about my cards, especially ones that were made some time ago, that their meaning is fluid and can be totally different from one viewing to the next. So just for today, this card says the following...
Who are you?
I am the one who is firm
I am the one who is closed
I am the one who chooses to yield or stay resolute
I am the one who is called a bitch
I am the one who is blocking the way
I am the one who is challenging
What do you have to give me?
I give you the strength to know your boundaries. I give you the self worth to know that honouring your boundaries is not something to be denigrated. I give you the wisdom to know that the shadow side of boundaries are barriers, and that barriers can impede growth. I give you a tower of strength.
What do you want from me?
I want you to be aware of your boundaries and to explore their current relevance before marking the sand. I want you to remember that boundaries can shift as the your journey moves on.

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